So, I found this was posted on facebook. I’m not friends with the person who posted this, but I am friends with someone who liked it. I would love to leave a comment…but I can’t. So I’ll put it on here:
Dear asshole, (I wouldn’t sign that ‘new found asshole’, I’m pretty sure ‘asshole’ suits you just fine)
I’ll try to keep this short, since clearly your tiny, misogynistic brain can’t comprehend simple, logical concepts.
First of all, referring to yourself as a ‘good/great’ guy is arrogant, obnoxious, and (for me, and I’ know many others) a total turn off. You and your mom may think you’re amazing, but probably very few others do. Especially when you post shit like this.
Second, if a woman says she’s not ready for a relationship then that’s too fucking bad for you, because that means, guess what, that she’s NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP. That’s the end of the line for you. You’ve hit a brick wall, and you have no right to comment further because you’re not a part of anything.
And when she finds a ‘great guy’ like you (that was dripping with sarcasm, just so you know) and doesn’t want to get in a relationship with you that means - GUESS WHAT - she considers you a close friend and doesn’t want it to get ruined. Especially if she’s had bad break ups in the past that ruined any friendship with the person. She doesn’t want that to happen with you.
Or, I know this is hard to comprehend, but maybe she just doesn’t like you romantically. I know that thought probably never crossed your mind.
But let’s get to one of the most important points: you have absolutely no right to comment on any woman’s sexual or romantic life unless she has asked you directly what you think. Just because you want her doesn’t mean she thinks of you in any way other than platonic friendship. You can bitch and moan all you want about how you’ll never have a girlfriend because you’re “such a good guy”, but any other comments and generalizations are unwarrented and just make you look like a whiney little fuck.
I’m so sick of boys saying shit like this. You can feel lonely and complain about that all you want, that’s fine. But to blame females as a whole for the fact you’re alone is pathetic and you just look like a total asshole.
If we’re the ones making people like you “scarce” I’d say we’re doing the world a good thing, we could do with less fuckfaces.
Sincerly, shut the fuck up.
PS: Why is females in quotations? Are we imaginary? I guess to you we might as well be.
^^^^ How I feel about dudes complaining about getting friend-zoned.
I don’t understand why this is even… a thing O_O
-If you like someone romantically, you date them
-If you don’t liket them, you don’t date them
whether you’re a guy, girl, intersex, transsexual, genderqueer, vampire, alien, ghost, okay not sure about the last three
how are these things different depending on the gender of who rejected who? a girl who got rejected by a guy who considers her to be a friend is no different from.. vice versa. I do know that there are guys out there who dream of scoring by making friends with a girl first, and then when she considers them to be a close friend, they hope that they’ll move on to the byfriend spot. Well that RARELY HAPPENS, dear gentlemen 8D It’s not impossible but it’s not something you should EXPECT. Time to learn that already.
I have this problem with a few guys who I am friends with, but want to be more than friendly with me. No, goddamnit. You are a friend. I have no feelings for you romantically. Please get off my back about this. :T
If you’re a guy who befriends a girl with the hopes of becoming more than friends, then it’s not really friendship, and you’re not a great guy anyway.
I have had a few guys becoming friends with me, while knowing that I’m not interested in the male sex. And they still tried to hit it off. And at the time I wasn’t single, so I said “I have a girlfriend, I’m homosexual”. I got back “Oh cool! Is your girlfriend also single?” And when I STILL denied them, they got mad and said that “It didn’t count,” and that “girls can’t have guy friends.”
… Uhm. What? No. Get out.